My name is Lori Knott. I have been a client of Rachel’s for 3 years now. My journey began as a wife wanting to increase her libido for her husband. When I look at where I am now…. a Spiritual Sex Educator…. it honestly blows my mind.
I am a full time working Mom of 3 wonderful kids. My husband and I have been married for 12 years. I have a Doctorate in pharmacy. I am passionate about energy work and meditation. How and why do I fit in being a Spiritual Sex Educator? I fit the time into my schedule because I know how it feels to be a crazy busy Mom with little kids working and trying to develop a side business while maintaining a healthy sex life.
I know how it feels to have zero sleep because the kids were up all night and the last thing you want to do is have sex.
I know how it feels to want to work on your side business because it lights you up and you would rather work than have sex (because this is your quiet time).
I know how it feels to have poor body image after having 3 kids.
I know how it feels to also say “No, not tonight.” again and feel like crap because I let my husband down again.
I also know how it feels to begin this journey. It’s exciting. It’s new! It’s challenging.
My first question to you would be why are you wanting this? I really didn’t know the answer to that question until I was about 2 year into my work with Rachel. The why that I started with “I want to be a better wife.” Then, my work began. I discovered I had forgotten who Lori even was. My work took me on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
I love yoga. I love energy work. I love taking time for myself. I can now set healthy boundaries.
I am Lori!
Man, it feels great to say that.
So, back to the why. My why started with wanting to change for my husband. What I discovered is that I needed to want to make the change in libido for myself. I now know want an increased libido for ME! I want to feel pleasure. I want to enjoy sex. I want to be able to quiet my brain forget my to-do list. I want to connect with my husband because I love him so much.
And, I have done it! Don’t get me wrong, I am not a sex every night woman. However, my libido went from thinking about sex once a quarter or even six months to every day. I am more comfortable with my body. I have open discussions with my husband about things I would like to try. All because I have been on this journey.
My passion is to be able to share my journey with you. I want you to know you are not alone. I want you to know how amazing you are. I want you to value and love yourself. I want your libido flame to grow like mine.
Throughout my entire journey, I kept saying to Rachel, “How can I scream this stuff from the rooftops?” Well, here I am ready to scream 🙂
I have done the work. I am here to support you now.
In closing, I would like to thank Rachel. Thank you for believing me. Thank you for pushing me out of my comfort zone. Thank you for giving me Lori back. Thank you for creating this space so we can help more women! You have been a true gift in my life. I look in the mirror now and say “Lori, I love you!” My energy shines! All thanks to you and your guidance.
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